Saturday, March 31, 2007

Just A Few Minor Details

-I don't like to be seen as "expendable".
-I don't think that telling people how to dream or create is the best way to motivate someone to do anything.
-I believe in the power of silence.
-I think the world would be better if people would trash the cynicism and apathy.
-I also think that showing up to your job sober would be beneficial.
-It amuses me to think that certain people are so passionate about beliefs that contradict each other.
-I always thought art was more complicated than paper mache, duct tape, and string (guess I'm wrong...).
-I am not stupid for believing in love.
-I won't respect you if you believe, while treating me like a complete idiot, that I should, in fact, agree with everything you say. (ergo: "I'm a Christian, so you should respect me...you're Catholic, so you MUST be guilty of polytheism and blasphemy...)
-Why yes, I DO think you're stupid.

Not apologetic at all,
Miranda

Thursday, March 29, 2007

Don't tell Optimism, but I got another betta. He is no longer the only fishie. I'm sure he will be upset to find out. In keeping with the theme of the "isms," I'm trying to determind the name of this little guy. He is bluish purple, really pretty colors, and at least half the size of Optie. Possible names so far: Mysticism, Pacifism, Narcissism, Opportunism... and you can go to this site: http://www.morewords.com/ends-with/ism/ to see other options. i want something that can have a cute nickname, like how i use optie for optimism. like mysticism could be missy or mister or something fun... i don't know. maybe i will take a picture and that will help...

NCLEX

I'm supposed to be studying for my NCLEX exam tomorrow, but alas I wanted a break, or to be more exact one more thing to do before beginning. So I have lots more questions to go through today and very little ability to sit still. I should take a picture of all the different ways I sit (or stand) when I'm in class or the library. I don't have ADD, it's just that I don't like sitting straight up with my feet on the ground. I think part of that is because I have bad hips and back that if I stay sitting for too long they start to hurt. bad. So subconsciously I think my body tries to prevent this onset of pain by making me move around. a lot. I don't know what I'm going to do once I'm in the real word and can't sit through more than an hour meeting without tucking one foot underneath me or holding another leg close to my chest. I don't think that'd make such a great impression, no? Does anyone else ever have a problem sitting still or properly for that matter? Alas, I suppose I should at least do a few tests online. I can't wait until I'm actually in the hospital working. Yet, the eduacating part never stops, as the medical field is always rapidly chanding so I suppose this exam will not bring me any closer to a test free life. Oh, c'est la vive. -Sara

Wednesday, March 28, 2007

Alright, that's it.



I had to post this picture. I forgot I'd taken it when we went to Maine.

SO....

It's been too long.

I feel like I've been up to my forehead in stuff to get done, and now that my speech is over, I'm finding myself with all this free time--well, not exactly, since I have a paper to write for Monday and a lot of reading to do (as always), but I believe this may be a psychological sense of "free time". Mainly because I make mountains out of molehills (I'm a champion...sometime I'll post a picture of the trophy...) and now that I have nothing insanely huge to worry about, I feel weird. And free.

So I'm finally blogging again.

I'm going to re-tell a story that I told in one of my personal blogs, because I think it's worthy of another post. Last Sunday, as I was worrying about my speech and my mother intervening and making me freak out, Simon literally sat me down on a bench to try and talk everything out. (He's so patient with me...I'm lucky to have him) He started with his usual flurry of questions to get me to figure out what exactly is bothering me and why I'm making such a huge deal of it to myself, and then his phone vibrated. We both felt it because it was in a pocket of his pants, grazing against my leg. He answered--it was our buddy Tim. He paused, turned around, turned his gaze slightly skyward, and hung up the phone.

"We're going to go see Tim."
"Where is he?"
"Over there."

Tim was reading Descartes in a tree because it was so warm outside. We approached the tree, and I dropped my backpack near the trunk, swinging myself up without another word. My weekend hadn't gone very well up until that point (I've been having some internal issues with my current circle of friends--I'll spare the details), so a tree-climb was just what I needed. Simon quickly followed, also ecstatic to join Tim in the tree, because he hadn't climbed a tree in years.

All three of us found comfortable sitting positions in this tree, and later, two more people briefly joined us and found even more comfortable sitting positions. Five people seated comfortably in one tree? It was amazing. After the other two left, Simon, Tim and I began taunting the people we knew as they passed--but we also taunted the people we didn't know.

Tim: "Oh look, he's shy. He just did the quick-glance-up-and-then-glance-away-so-they-won't-see-me look."

Simon: "Can I throw your book at him? Please?"

Me: (whisper) "I CAN SEE DOWN HER SHIRT!..."

Soon we began to spot more girls who were scantily clad (we had a discussion about how the warm weather brings a lot of them out), and then Simon interrupted with a very blatant statement of "Now THERE'S a shirt you can see down." Because of how blatant it was, the girl actually looked up and shot us all an angry glare. What made the entire situation even funnier was Simon's reply: "You shouldn't be wearing shirts that people in trees can see down if you're going to get mad about it."

Truly a sentiment we should all live by. ;-)

(Side note: I used to care if people could see down my shirt--not people in trees, specifically. I'm still working through self-esteem issues...but not so much anymore. I thought about that whole situation a lot as I went to sleep that night, and I came to the conclusion that if I were wearing a shirt that someone in a tree could see down, I wouldn't get angry about it. I'd laugh and wave at that someone in a tree. I considered this to be a huge advancement in my own process of identity formation. I am happy.) :-D

`A finally relaxed Miranda

P.S. I have a single in Holy Cross next year. Rock. On. :-P

Tuesday, March 27, 2007

As Promised :-)

On the plane going there, this is actually quite fun :-)


The Subway musicians, mainly a video of my feet


Really dark video, listen for me say "the Atlantic Ocean" (it might be something else, but I'm pretty sure that is what it is)


Video of hotel room, this has got to be some of my best work ;)

Pictures from my adventure!

On the plane...



Inside the Chrysler Building, great story about this place from the last visit, but that is for another time


The view of the city from Dan's window


Flat Stanleys of Jessica and Arlene (neither have ever really been to NYC)


On the plane which departed two hours later, but still considered itself "on time"



Fun view of the city from the plane


My Cincinnati hotel room


Free stuff in the hotel


Videos to come once they are finished uploading...

Monday, March 26, 2007

JFK may be my favorite President...

but certainly not my favorite airport.

So I said I was going to New York this weekend. I did. It was a great time, amazing weather and all. I made some videos that I'll put up here once I upload them.

Dan and I wanted to maximize our time spent together, and we did, so much that we were concerned I might miss my flight. I had only used LaGuardia up until that point, and this time I had to leave through JFK. Now everything before hand said my flight was "on time" = 5:45, which means boarding at 5:15 and getting there early enough for security and all that fun stuff. I got to the gate right at 5:15 to find that there were at least 4 planes departing from that gate before mine. They wanted some people to volunteer to wait till tomorrow to fly home, and they'd give you a gift certificate and everything. I thought, hey, why not... my flight was already gonna be late, and I only had 55 minutes to depart on the following plane. Dan and I decided to see if I boarded in 10 minutes, if it was any longer than that, I would take the deal and figure out how to get back Monday morning. I boarded. I told the flight attendant how much time I would have in between and asked her what she thought I should do. I believe she said it would be to my advantage if I stayed on the plane. We sat there for about an hour, and then we moved to get in line to take off. All this time we're following no cell phone procedures, just sitting and waiting. Then they come on around 7:15 and say that 35-40 planes are ahead of us waiting to take off. So we waited another hour or so. Finally we took off, and got to Cincinnati around 9:25. My flight to South Bend was taking off at 9:07. I missed it.



soooo right now I am in Northern Kentucky, in a hotel room, reflecting on this weekend and my decision making to listen to flight attendants over my instincts... I got a flight tomorrow morning so I should be back in time for class and I need to pick up a book which I believe is an actual personal document, but we shall see. I really don't mind being here, it is my own little adventure... traveling this beautiful country on my own, making real decisions and learning how to accept them... it is a vast improvement from previous Mickeys.

Thursday, March 22, 2007

Hungry College Student No More

Wouldn't ya know it? Two minutes after Chelsea headed downstairs to meet her parents she called my phone and invited me to dinner! Yippee! We went to Famous Daves and man oh man did those ribs hit the stop. We had a great time teasing Chelsea about her new BOYFRIEND and of course her parents are hilarious so the laughing didn't stop until we said goodbye. It was a pretty nice feeling to get invited because I like her family (and the food) and for whatever reason I was missin' home a little bit that day so it's all good now. Just thought I'd fill y'all in. -The Happy Tummy

Hungry College Student


Rarr. My roommate's parents are coming into town again. I love Chelsea's parents! They're dropping off Chelsea's school ring that came into the mail and then going out to eat. So on top of liking Chelsea's parent's I also love food, and I dunno I'd really like to go out to eat with them. Perhaps this post will come off the wrong way, but it's more light-hearted than serious. But most times when my parents have come into South Bend they treat Chelsea and my boyfriend to dinner. So me, being the very silly roommate, has been making several comments like, "Oh, so where do ya want to eat, roommate?" She replies, "I think Panara." "Hmm. Nah... you don't want to go there. You should go to some place like Red Lobster. Then you could get TWO orders of crab legs. Eat one and then say, "Shoot. I'm too full. I think I'm going to bring these back to my roommate."' Naturally, she laughs and says, "I don't like crab legs. What about a lobster tail?" I said, "Well... you could go back and forth with ordering a lobster tail and crab legs so that you confuse the waiter and get BOTH... and then bring the crab legs back to your roommate of course!" She didn't bite the hook. : ( Of course I wouldn't expect to go to Red Lobster, but it'd be nice to be invited to go out with them one time, because never have I been invited to go eat with them over the past two years of being her roommate. (And they've come to South Bend plenty of times, because they only live one hour away.) Maybe she just isn't getting my obvious hints?! No. She has close to a 4.0 GPA. I know money isn't an issue for them because her dad's salary is in the three digits. Besides, it'd be nice to be invited and I'd even pay my way! I know they like me, because Chelsea has passed along comments her mom has said like, "Oh I just love Sara! I'm so glad she's your roommate!" So I don't know. I don't want to invite myself because that's rude. I'm just saying it would be nice for her to invite me. That's all. That and I'm hungry. Do other people's roommates invite them out to dinner when their parents come into town? Rarr. Dining hall food for me. Again. -Post submitted by Sara's growling stomach

Start Spreading the News...

I'm loving Sinatra, and going to New York this weekend, so hopefully I'll take some good pictures or get some interesting sounds recorded.

The following is not the Theme from New York, New York, but it is all about Sinatra and it has pictures of NY and Elvis in it so I thought it would be a nice transition to my next topic. Enjoy :-)




Also, I don't know if I mentioned this, but I wrote a letter to a former actress who co-starred with Elvis in two movies, and she did some other movies in the late 50s/early 60s... she is a nun now, and I found that fascinating. So anyway, she responded to me and I would like to write some of what she wrote.

"Dear Michelle:

Thank you so much for the thought to write. It is wonderful to receive expressions of support for my years in Hollywood from those generations apart from me and from the filmmaking of that era.

In your letter there is reference also to my Contemplative life. To those who seek to know why I became an enclosed Benedictine Nun, my answer is, because the Lord asked it of me. It can only be suggested to you that my own journey, my own call, was a long and severe test and it was not easy. Nonetheless, I have gained everything for the more I live Contemplative life, the more I am aware that it is an absolute gift He offers..."

If you want more info about this lady, let me know. I can even let you borrow a movie or show you the actual document. Also, if you have any interest in the "Contemplative life," she would welcome you to her Abbey in Connecticut. I've got the website and all. Just let me know.




Also, a website you guys might enjoy, www.twitter.com. My boyfriend told me about it, and it is a great way to learn more about various people such as John Edwards, and even me! My user name is mickeypresley, if you have one, let's be friends! That is all for now, have a great weekend :-)

Wednesday, March 21, 2007

I love the RAIN. Rain -
it's refreshing. invigorating.

Rain brings Spring.
longer d a y s. SUNSHINE's warmth.

Warm Spring
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Soaked clothes, shoes, and hair. Washing the inside (out). Renewing.

Liberating.

Puddle ju mp ing.

Mother's Day Weekend - Morel Mushrooms. Coveted morel patches.
(Family secrets.) Forest walks.

alone

Fresh air - Spring air.
Describe Spring's scent to someone who can't smell.

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G r o w t h. Tree buds. Flowers bloom.
GREEN.

Summer. BAREFOOT.
Blue
skies. Crispmorningruns.

Freedom.

-Sara

The Daughters of Isabella


This is all I've been able to think about yesterday and now this morning. I'm absolutely thrilled that we're getting a college circle started here at Saint Mary's--just another way women can develop those awesome sisterhood bonds with each other. What's even more is that at the meeting last night with all the International Regents (SOME CAME DOWN FROM CANADA), I'm about 99.99% sure that there was an equal amount of Notre Dame women to supplement the number of Saint Mary's women that showed up for the meeting. Can you believe it? Can it be that we may have found a way to help demolish the huge wall between Notre Dame women and Saint Mary's women?

I woke up at 8 am today involuntarily. I had my alarm set for 7:30 with the intention of heading to breakfast with the regents, but I couldn't drag myself out of bed. Sharon let me sleep. As soon as she left, however (literally as she shut the door behind her), I noticed that I was sweating and wanted the window open. So I got up and tried to open it...and it wouldn't open. This was because I was so far below it (BLAST my short gene!). I battled with it for a few minutes and finally triumphed. A fresh breeze hit me in the face with the smell of spring rain, and I realized I was awake. I made some coffee and started working on various homework items.

An hour ago, I truly believed, as the Phantom Planet song goes, that today would be a lonely day.

Now, I believe the exact opposite.

I have constructed my Spring 2007 playlist in iTunes. I've got the FEVER... :-D

-Miranda (I almost typed Nirmanda...it must be way early for my brain...)

Tuesday, March 20, 2007

Cardinals

The word has lots of different meanings to different people. St. Louis, the religious position in the Catholic Church, a shade of red, the state bird of Ohio, etc... but I'm talking about the beautiful birds. When I was little, I called them "Lady Birds" and I hadn't even heard of Lady Bird Johnson. I just thought of them as the bird version of a lady bug. Every time I see one I think of it as a good sign. Au contraire, every time I see a blue jay I think of it as bad luck. (Same thought process went into naming my red fish "Optimism" and my blue fish "Pessimism") Anyway, I have a Bio test coming up and we keep talking about things like sexual selection, the reason why the males are brighter than the females and so on... Tonight I was walking around outside and I saw a male and a female flirting with each other. I should have taken a picture, but it was too dark. Just wanted to share my lady bird thoughts with you :-)

A bunch of things that represent me













Sunday, March 18, 2007

There's No Surf in Cleveland, USA







... but there is Spring Break!

It is filled with lots of surprises, good and bad, but all exciting. This break included an earthquake, tornado, some beautiful sunny days, and of course a winter storm in time for St. Patrick's Day. No St. Patrick's Day is complete without some nasty weather.

I got all my homework and relaxing in on that first weekend, and it was glorious.

Monday was spent getting up early, having lunch with my mom and seeing where she works, visiting my high school and talking to the current students and my old teachers, and running various errands.

Tuesday I slept in ever so late and then enjoyed the beautiful weather with my pets and the neighbors, and spent the evening catching up with my friend Jessica. That was when I saw Zodaic.

I did a lot of travelling around the area, though unfortunately I forgot to go to Hinckley on the 15th to watch the buzzards return. Some day, some day...
Instead of Hinckley, I spent an evening with my brother and his friends at Kent State, the school most famous for May 4, 1970, but really a great school. This was the night of the tornado, and actually, I completely missed the storm at my house by visiting Tim, all I had was rain and a little thunder travelling back home late that Wednesday night.




Visited my friend Nicky at Westminster in New Wilmington, PA. I did not get lost trying to find her. Got a tour of the TV station and radio building as she is a broadcast journalism major. We stayed up late chatting about the important things in life, and then I left early Friday morning to visit all my relatives in Youngstown.





My family is the best family ever, no doubt about that. I am not biased. Youngstown is most famous for its mafia and gang problems due to the steel mills shutting down and all... but my grandparents are local heroes and they know EVERYONE in Youngstown. I hung out with my grandma and we went to the Butler Art Museum and I saw an awesome painting of Abe Lincoln, pre-presidency.

We had lunch there with my aunt Molly. We talked for about 3 hours I think. I know we were there a long time. I spent time with my cousins Brendan, Katie, Colin and Brigid (all Molly and Jamie's kids) and I met their various new pets... just chilled there. Then I went to visit the other set of cousins, Uncle Chris and Aunt Gina's kids: Sean, Christy, Erin and Patrick. I met some more pets I hadn't met yet, and chilled there, and then went out to dinner with some of them. It was a great time. All these cousins are much younger than me, so it is fun to watch them grow and play with them. I love them very much. The little girls were especially happy to see me. I drove home that night in the snow storm, which worried some people but I was alright. I've learned that my fears are other peoples' fears and I really shouldn't be afraid of anything.





Saturday was a day of endless fun, commencing at 7 am. It consisted of me being adopted by my friend Hannah's family.
While my family is Irish, we do very little to celebrate the special holiday, and it has become tradition for me to join my "Aunt" Beth's family. Aunt Beth is one of eleven children, ten of which are girls. So about half of her sisters came to town for the day with their husbands and kids. Aunt Beth is on my list of all time favorite people, so I always feel special spending the day with her. Anyway, we went to mass at St. Patrick's downtown, with the new bishop Richard Lennon (he should be a Beatle with his name) of Boston. You have to get to this mass about two hours early if you want a seat. It is a beautiful church, looks to me like it should be a basilica or cathedral. There are bagpipes and everything, oh it must be the best Mass I go to every year.

Walked to brunch from there at a little restaurant, and we packed the place with a party of 35+. Then we drove to the hotel to drop off our food and stuff, and watch the parade.





I lasted the whole time once again even though it was literally freezing, and being on Lake Erie doesn't help with the wind. This was my sixth consecutive year at the parade, the first 4 I marched with my high school, but it is much more enjoyable simply to watch the parade. It is a long one, 2-3 hours, and normally when you think of a St Patrick's Day Parade, you don't think of Cleveland. You think of Boston, New York, or Chicago. Yet a lady was there who had been to all of those parades and said they were nothing compared to Cleveland's. People don't realize that about Cleveland, what a wonderful city it is, but that is for a different entry. We had a party back at Aunt Beth's house where I continued to bond with the cousins and all. I was pretty glad I had spent Friday with my family, otherwise I would feel like I had completely changed families. Oh I love parties. Especially at Aunt Beth's. I didn't want to leave, but my ride was ready around 10 last night, so I had to leave. My friend Amanda had just got back to start her break, and I got to see her at the party too.


I could have gone somewhere with guaranteed sunshine (or surf) for my Spring Break, but I do not regret going home and spending time with great family and friends and friends' families. It was so great to recharge the batteries and do a lot of fun things like driving. Spending time with these amazing people makes me realize what is most important to me, and I really hope that next Spring break coincides with St. Patrick's Day because that is the best way to celebrate.

Tuesday, March 13, 2007

Zodiac



Just saw this movie tonight with a friend... if you like suspense and law and order type things, you would like this. It is kinda long, but worth it. I enjoy the time period it takes place, starts off around 1968 and most of the things happen around then, but the movie continues through the 70s, 80s and even the early 90s. Thought you might want to check it out :-)

Thursday, March 8, 2007

Oh What A Wonderful Feeling.... Oh What A Wonderful Day...

I slept in until 12:52pm today - the latest I've gotten to sleep in all semester, and possibly all school-year. Wowwee. Do I feel great! Plus the sun is absolutely AMAZING. There is nothing better than waking up to a GORGEOUS day. The trouble now is motivating myself to have a productive day b/c I just feel like sitting around in my pajamas soaking it all in. Hmm my Mom called to let me know the gas prices are going up so I probably ought to go get that taken care of and then eat something in the DH. So I guess food is enough motivation to get me off my bum. Have an awesome day! Tootles. -Sara

I feel like being creepy.



-Miranda

Wednesday, March 7, 2007

Providing A Choice for Life

I just thought I would throw this article out there for an open discussion about women and men's rights. I thought Ms. Foster did a pretty good job of looking at both pro-life and pro-choice movements and where improvements need to be made. Of course, there are still countless issues that can stem from this article so feel free to go off the topic of abortion. (Just please keep your comments as factual based and straightforward as possible.)

The Feminist Case Against Abortion

The abortion debate is full of horror stories on both sides of the issue. Coercive and unethical counselors lie to vulnerable women and pressure them. This has happened in some abortion clinics as well as some pregnancy care centers. Women have died from botched abortions, both before abortion was legalized and after, when it is supposed to be safe. Fanatics resort to violence on both extremes of the pro-choice/pro-life spectrum.

Focusing on these isolated incidents and extreme cases makes for effective fund-raising. What it does not do is help women - which was what the original feminist movement set out to do. In the 1960's, certain factions of the women's movement made a drastic about-face.

The feminist movement was born more than two hundred years ago when Mary Wollstonecraft wrote "A Vindication of the Rights of Women." After decrying the sexual exploitation of women, she condemned those who would "either destroy the embryo in the womb, or cast it off when born." Shortly thereafter, abortion became illegal in Great Britain.

The now revered feminists of the 19th century were also strongly opposed to abortion because of their belief in the worth of all humans. Like many women in developing countries today, they opposed abortion even though they were acutely aware of the damage done to women through constant child-bearing. They opposed abortion despite knowing that half of all children born died before the age of five. They knew that women had virtually no rights within the family or the political sphere. But they did not believe abortion was the answer.

Without known exception, the early American feminists condemned abortion in the strongest possible terms. In Susan B. Anthony's newsletter, The Revolution, abortion was described as "child murder," "infanticide" and "foeticide." Elizabeth Cady Stanton, who in 1848 organized the first women's rights convention in Seneca Falls, New York, classified abortion as a form of infanticide and said, "When you consider that women have been treated as property, it is degrading to women that we should treat our children as property to be disposed of as we see fit."

Anti-abortion laws enacted in the latter half of the 19th century were a result of advocacy efforts by feminists who worked in an uneasy alliance with the male-dominated medical profession and the mainstream media. The early feminists understood that, much like today, women resorted to abortion because they were abandoned or pressured by boyfriends, husbands and parents and lacked financial resources to have a baby on their own.

Ironically, the anti-abortion laws that early feminists worked so hard to enact to protect women and children were the very ones destroyed by the Roe v. Wade decision 100 years later - a decision hailed by the National Organization for Women (NOW) as the "emancipation of women."

The goals of the more recent NOW-led women's movement with respect to abortion would have outraged the early feminists. What Elizabeth Cady Stanton called a "disgusting and degrading crime" has been heralded by Eleanor Smeal, former president of NOW and current president of the Fund for a Feminist Majority, as a "most fundamental right."

Betty Friedan, credited with reawakening feminism in the 1960's with her landmark book, The Feminine Mystique, did not even mention abortion in the early edition. It was not until 1966 that NOW included abortion in its list of goals. Even then abortion was a low priority.

It was a man - abortion rights activist Larry Lader, who remains active today - who credits himself with guiding a reluctant Friedan to make abortion an issue for NOW. Lader had been working to repeal the abortion laws based on population growth concerns, but state legislators were horrified by his ideas. (Immigration and improved longevity were fueling America's population growth - not reproduction, which in fact had declined dramatically.)

Lader teamed up with a gynecologist, Bernard Nathanson, to co-found the National Alliance to Repeal Abortion Laws, the forerunner of today's National Abortion and Reproductive Rights Action League (NARAL).

Lader suggested to the NOW leadership that all feminist demands (equal education, jobs, pay, etc.) hinged on a woman's ability to control her own body and procreation. After all, employers did not want to pay for maternity benefits or lose productivity when a mother took time off to care for a newborn or sick child. Lader convinced the NOW leadership that legalized abortion was the key to the workplace.

Dr. Nathanson, who later became a pro-life activist, states in his book, Aborting America, that the two were able to convince Friedan that abortion was a civil rights issue. Later he admitted that they simply made up the numbers of women dying from illegal abortions, which had been a major point in their argument.

Lader's and Nathanson's strategy was highly effective. NOW has made the preservation of legal abortion its number one priority. Its literature repeatedly states that access to abortion is "the most fundamental right of women, without which all other rights are meaningless."

With this drastic change, a highly visible faction of the women's movement abandoned the vision of the early feminists: a world where women would be accepted and respected as women. There are now 1.3 million surgical abortions per year in the United States. The Alan Guttmacher Institute (the research arm of Planned Parenthood) reports that women have abortions for two primary reasons: lack of financial resources and lack of emotional support.

Feminists for Life of America recognizes that abortion is a symptom of, not a solution to, the continuing struggles women face in the workplace, at home and in society. Our emphasis is on addressing root causes and promoting solutions - from prevention to practical resources.

The first step is to empower young women and men to make life-affirming choices. No compassionate person, pro-choice or pro-life, wants to see a teenage girl drop out of school and face a lifetime of poverty because she became pregnant. Nor do we want her to suffer the pain and anguish of abortion. Public and private funding for comprehensive programs that emphasize teen pregnancy prevention must be increased dramatically. We need honest and unbiased evaluation and replication of effective programs that include proven strategies such as life-planning skills training and mentoring. Boys, as well as girls, should be included in the remedy.

Groups like Feminists for Life and pregnancy resource centers regularly get calls from women who are pressured by partners who say they will pay $300 for an abortion but won't pay a dime in child support. Men and boys need to know that, thanks to legislation supported by Feminists for Life and other women's organizations that strengthens child support enforcement and paternity establishment, they can no longer coerce women into having an abortion by threatening to abandon their children if they are born. But fathers need to do more than make payments. Their presence is needed in their child's life. For women whose partners are absent and who are unable to provide for their children, assistance must come from both private and public sources to protect children by providing the basis, including affordable, quality child care, and education and employment opportunities for the mother.

If we are serious as a nation about significantly reducing the number of abortions, then established, credible pregnancy resource centers should be eligible for federal funding. Nearly 4,000 pregnancy care centers and maternity homes guide women in crisis through the maze of available support services - food, clothing, housing, furniture, medical care including high risk pregnancies, legal assistance, help with employment and education, drug abuse and domestic violence counseling, childbirth, breast-feeding and parenting classes - all at no charge. Some specialize in bilingual/bicultural services, adoption and/or post-abortion counseling. These centers are where many pro-lifers "walk their talk" to help women in need. They leverage financial and in-kind resources from individuals, businesses, churches and communities across the country, yet they cannot consistently meet the demand for services.

Although these centers are clearly listed in the yellow pages as "abortion alternatives," some abortion advocates have resorted to calling them "fake clinics" to discredit their efforts to give women choices other than abortion. Coercive techniques, lies, and other unethical practices should not be tolerated in abortion clinics or in pregnancy resource centers. While the vast majority of pregnancy resource centers such as those affiliated with Catholic Charities and Birthright, and the vast majority of not-for-profit abortion providers do not engage in these unethical practices - some for-profit abortion clinics and unaffiliated pregnancy care centers may stray from the ethical path. NARAL is currently working to expose those anti-abortion centers that resort to lies and lurid pictures; NARAL should also expose those abortion clinics that try to convince women they have no choices other than abortion.

One model program is First Resort of California. Founder Shari Plunkett approached HMO Kaiser Permanente with a plan to reduce the number of abortions in the Bay area. After thoroughly reviewing the program - even editing brochures - Kaiser agreed to refer clients who were unsure about having an abortion to First Resort. Kaiser's client satisfaction rate was 99.3%. When NARAL's California affiliate (CARAL) succeeded in pressuring Kaiser to terminate the program, women lost the ability to make an informed choice. CARAL ignored an invitation to meet with staff and tour First Resort.

Across the country, Americans on both side of the abortion debate agree that women have a right to make informed decisions about their pregnancy. We can empower women to exercise this right by passing "Right to Know" legislation. As with any other medical procedure, women have a right to full disclosure of the nature of the abortion procedure, risks and potential complications and alternative support services, as well as the father's responsibility. A woman has the right to know her doctor's name, whether he/she will be available if a medical emergency emerges, any history of malpractice in any state or revocation of a medical license; she has the right to a fully equipped clinic and/or ambulance nearby in case of complications, and the right to redress if she is hurt by the abortion. Even veterinary clinics are better regulated than abortion clinics, for which there are no uniform inspections or reporting requirements. Doctors who have botched abortions, caused infertility or death and lost their medical licenses have been known to jump state lines to continue providing abortions and even open new clinics. There are no regulations to stop them.

Employers and educational institutions can also implement policies that ensure meaningful options for pregnant and parenting women (as well as parenting men). Women in the workplace should not have to choose between their child and their job. That is no choice at all. Employers who have not already done so should consider flex time, job sharing, on-site child care and telecommuting. Women need maternity coverage in health care; men and women need parental leave. Living wages would enable parents to support their children.

Similarly, women should not be forced to choose between their education and life plans and their child. As Feminists for Life has expanded its College Outreach Program in recent years, a number of college counselors have told us the only choice they are aware of is between various abortion clinics - as if women are not capable of reading or thinking while they are pregnant or parenting. Feminists for Life is leading forums on college campuses that challenge university officials to provide housing, on-site child care and maternity coverage within student health care plans, and inform women about their hard-won right to child support. We have developed comprehensive Pregnancy Resources Kits with the input of those on both sides of the debate - including abortion doctors, pro-choice clinic staff, attorneys and students - to give women the "rest of the choices."

Even though Feminists for Life has reached out to pro-choice activists to help provide more choices for women, ironically, Planned Parenthood, the nation's largest abortion provider, has called Feminists for Life's solution-oriented program "anti-choice."

If providing practical resources that help women can be called "anti-choice," something has gone terribly wrong. It is time to set aside the rhetoric and horror stories and fund-raising tactics and think again about how we can help women in need.

Serrin M. Foster, President, Feminists for Life
Reprinted with permission from The Commonwealth, September 13, 1999

Just a few thoughts: I am an advocate for both women and men's rights. As far as the abortion issues goes, I believe both pro-life and pro-choice groups should work more closely together to bring about change so the practical and emotional support from family, friends, and society supports life. Not only a life for the mother and father but also the child. Why do I mention the father, when it is the mother who is carrying the child for nine months and has to give birth? (Please note: I am aware society makes it more difficult for a pregnant woman than a man who has a baby on the way... the stimga, the difficulties obtaining an education or job post-birth.... the list can go on.) But as they say, "It takes two to tango." Argh... I have to finish this later. I need to shower up, eat, and attend a professional meeting on cervical cancer. Fun, fun! -Sara

Optimism on YouTube?!?!

Yes, you heard me correctly. Optimism, our campus fishie, told me today that he wanted more than just his own Facebook group. He said he wanted the whole world to be able to see him if they wanted. So I decided to make one of him singing and dancing to Presley's "Let me be there," and this way, you too can hear how awesome he sounds. If you know of any single female fishies, Optie might be interested in meeting them and potentially dating some... Anyway, watch and enjoy, and once it gets warmer, I'll bring him to class with me.

Tuesday, March 6, 2007

Running on fumes

It feels like I'm empty and completely devoid of any sort of subject matter that's worthy of writing. There's nothing in my brain. I'm only floating around with the occurances of each day, which don't seem to be anything even remotely interesting. I can say, however, that my temper is gradually getting longer in the sense that I'm not blowing up internally at things that irritate me (for example, stupid questions from freshmen in the LLC). Patience seems to be a security blanket that I'm gradually finding a way in which to burrow underneath it. It always feels good to burrow under blankets.

A bubble bath sounds really good right now. With a Terry Pratchett book. Maybe I should find a way to let my mind marinate in its own juices for a while. I'm gonna type out a passage from a Pratchett book I read over the summer, called "The Lost Continent". I was literally on the floor laughing at it. Here you go...

'Ponder exploded. "I don't believe this!" he said. "You're turning your back on an astonishing god-given opportunity--"
"Absolutely, Mr. Stibbons," said Ridcully, from above. "No offense meant, of course, but if the choice is a trip on the briny deep or staying on a small island with someone trying to create a more inflammable cow then you can call me Salty Sam."
"Is this the poop deck?" said the Dean.
"I hope not," said Ridcully briskly. "You see, Stibbons--"
"Are you sure?" said the Dean.
"I'm sure, Dean. You see, Stibbons, when you've had a little more expierience in these matters you'll learn that there's nothing more dangerous than a god with too much time on his hands--"
"Except an enraged mother bear," said the Senior Wrangler.
"No, they're far more dangerous."
"Not when they're really close."
"If it was the poop deck, how would we know?" said the Dean.
Ponder shook his head. There were times when the diesire to climb the thaumaturgical ladder was seriously blunted, and one of them was when you saw what was on top.'
:-D

Best Regards,
Miranda

Monday, March 5, 2007

Sunday, March 4, 2007

Let Me Be There

I have a new obsession. The song "Let Me Be There" originally made a hit by Olivia Newton-John, but the cover I like best is by a man named Elvis Presley. He does a great job on Newton-John songs. I still don't know what my true feelings are toward her. She is so cute though, and she has a lovely voice:



Like the Japanese subtitles. I looked for Presley's version, but it isn't here.
Here are the wonderful lyrics:
Wherever you go
Wherever you may wander in your life
Well surely you know, I always wanna be there
Holding your hand
And standing by to catch you when you fall
Seeing you through, in everything you do

(Chorus) I said let me be there in your morning
Let me be there in your night
Let me change whatever's wrong and make it right
Let me take you to that wonderland that only two can share
All I ask you, is let me be there

Watching you grow
And going through the changes in your life
Thats how I know, I always wanna to be there
Whenever you feel you need a friend to lean on
Here I am
Whenever you call, you know I'll be there

Chorus X 2

All I ask you is let me be there

Chorus



So here is a movie of Elvis doing another one of her songs, If You Love Me, Let Me Know:



The two songs sound similar, as they should. Both written by J. Rostill, who is a great songwriter in my opinion. These songs are beautiful. This Elvis video is from his last months, kinda sad... still has a wonderful voice though!

I have listened to Let Me Be There so many times this weekend. Something like 35 times. It is now in the top 10 on my most played list. I only have Presley's version. I'll look for Olivia's on iTunes. Anyway, hope you enjoy, and perhaps I will make a video of me singing with Elvis and add it to here later ;-)

Friday, March 2, 2007

Wasting Time

Just for the record.... I've now been lolly gagging online for over 2 hours. At least we can appreciate the webcounter that I put at the bottom of the blog. Plus, I can now conveniently click on the links to the right that will lead me to two of the nursing blogs I've been looking over. Tis all. Now off to do something productive... starting with a shower. Peace. -Sara

I can't figure out how to make this a link that you just clink on but here it is anyway: http://www.blogthings.com/whichamericancitiesbestfityouquiz/

In order to get to this link I had to take the quiz again. This time around I think the only thing I changed was related to whether I liked to go to museums or not? And I am a 65% match for Honolulu. Interesting..... -Sara

Future plans

Geesh. I took this quiz in hopes of helping me decide what city to consider living in next year. Looks like I'm still at square one. -Sara








American Cities That Best Fit You:
0% Atlanta
0% Austin
0% Boston
0% Chicago
0% Denver

Daily Vitamins



FYI: Should you experience nausea shortly after taking your daily vitamins you are not suffering from a deadly illness, the stomach flu, or even morning sickness (related to pregnancy). Here is why: "Research has found that most individuals experience nausea and sickness after taking a vitamin because the vitamin was taken on an empty stomach and/or without water, which is usually recommended." So what can Sara take away from this? Eat a banana or drink more water when sucking down those horse pills in the morning. Does anyone else have a difficult time with those nasty daily vitamins? It's not that I can't swallow them, it's that I gag on the taste. Sick. Anyway..... it's the weekend! HAPPY FRIDAY! -Sara

(Photo by: Suzanne's Monday Photos on flickr.com)

Thursday, March 1, 2007

B-O-R-E-D.

I am suppose to be studying for my exam right now. However, my eyelids were getting quite heavy and the vast amount of information overwhelming. I am beginning to wonder even if I studied all weekend, every day would this information stick in my brain and make sense? What's most difficult about nursing exams is that you can't just memorize information... you have to know how to apply it in clinical settings. Doesn't sound too tough, right? But our exams are usually designed to have two answers that are correct - you just have to choose the better answer (DUH!). This is tricky because in the clinical setting you could have been taught some thing different or common sense tells you, "A is the logical answer" while the BEST answer is B. A lot of this is about prioritization. What should the nurse do FIRST. It's not that I wouldn't implement answer A, but answer B takes precedence.

Also difficult is that the NCLEX exams (the nursing format) is geared more towards 2 year students - LPNs, as oppose to 4 year, BSNs. How so? LPNs are taught A+B=C. I am taught to think okay so I need this and that piece of information, and what about these symptoms.... insert 4 more questions... and then I can decide the best answer. Okay let's be honest, my problem with these exams is that I OVER THINK the question. But overall, BSN students are instructed on critical thinking - basically taking in the big picture so that we can specifically know why the patient's urine output may be decreased or why the patient's lung sounds crackle. A LPN is able to assess the problematic urine output and lung sounds, but without always understanding the pathophysiology behind it.

I would like to add though, there are certainly LPNs who have been working for years and know more than some RNs. I am not saying LPNs are inferior to RNs, simply that we are taught different ways of thinking, have more educational experience, and are allowed to implement more advanced nursing skills. However, NO registered nurse should act as though they are better or that the LPNs are there to do all the dirty work! We were taught how to clean up a messy bed or vomit just like any LPN.

Anyway.... this will be me in a few minutes when I get back to studying. Perhaps say a little prayer for me that my day turns out more productive than it has started out to be. Thanks! Ciao, ciao! -Sara

Photos by: (Top) teacherdudebbq1 (Bottom) Gummy_fritz on flickr.com